You're not alone

i'm gonna die alone

Fri, 06 Jul 2012 02:03:44 -0400

You’re not gonna die alone. Just because you currently don’t have a partner, does not mean youre gonna die alone. just live life, and have fun! dont look for a relationship, because eventually it will come too you. :) -Ashton

There is this guy I've liked since literally the 7th grade, now I'm a junior in highschool and we'll be seniors next year and I really want to try things out with him, but I''ve never gone out with anyone so I really don't know how to go about it. :/ I have a class with him now and I'm friends with one of his good friends maybe that can help for support, but now that we have a class together I have a reason to talk to him I just don't know how... please help

Sat, 26 May 2012 16:04:37 -0400

sorry i havent gotten to your question sooner!

but just tell this boy how you feel. like you said, you’ll be seniors next year, you’ll both be going separate ways in a year. so what if you never tell him, and you would never know if you guys couldve been together.

Maybe at first, just ask him if he’d like to hangout with you and his/your friend. and from there it should be easier talking to him.

hope i helped!

-Adreanna

No, it wasn't a good reason. She had no right to make me break up with him. He made mistakes and he hit me, but it's not her relationship. I'm trying to see him without her knowing, but it's hard.

Thu, 17 May 2012 21:47:41 -0400

I think your mom’s just scared he’ll hurt you again. I know people make mistakes, but has this boy really changed? If he has, you need to convince your mom, hiding your relationship from her won’t make things better, let your mom know that you’re going to see him no matter what she says. And promise me, if he ever hits you again, please leave him. No one deserves that. Because if it happens again, it could just keep happening, and someone could get seriously hurt. and he won’t change. -Adreanna

Hi there :) is it possible to be in love with or strongly like someone you know well, but havent hung out with personally? Say, a band member, and you know their personality so well, it's been a year and a half, you've met them a few times, the band member's been flirty with you in a friendly flirty way, you know what kind of person they are, but you havent actually hung out with for a length of time. This happened to me. I think I actually like this person. Is that weird and abnormal? :/

Thu, 17 May 2012 21:32:12 -0400

personally, i dont think you could be in love with someone you’ve never really hung out with before. I think maybe you could be strongly attracted to or infatuated with. i guess it couldn’t be completely impossible, but most of the time it’s just in the person’s head. It’s not weird to think you’re in love, or really really like someone. but try hanging out with them, see what they’re like around you, then decide if you are or are not in love with them. -Adreanna

My mom made me break up with my bf.

Thu, 17 May 2012 21:27:50 -0400

She really shouldn’t have made you, it’s your choice who you want to be with. was it for a good reason? -Adreanna

what type of advise do you give.?

Thu, 17 May 2012 21:14:31 -0400

We answer everything. No matter what. -Ashton

So my best guy friend confessed he liked me on easter I didn't exactly feel the same but he kept asking me to give him a chance so i went for it and then i really started to fall for him & now, i dont even know how to explain what i feel. I constantly think about him and his emotions are so bi polar. first he wants to talk to me, then he doesn't. And he says i hurt his feelings because after i said i'd give him a chance, i pushed him away & now i'm trying to fix things, is it too late to fix it?

Tue, 15 May 2012 16:16:19 -0400

It’s never to late to fix things. But he’s giving you mixed signals. Tell him to stop, and if he doesn’t , then i guess you guys just weren’t meant to be. -Ashton

hi, I've got a date tomorrow with this guy I really like ( I'm pretty sure he like me too). He's 17 and has never been kissed I'm 15 and I've got quite a lot experience. I want to kiss him but I don't know if I should (he's probably not going to kiss me, he's scared of being rejected). kissing on the first date might be too soon and I don't want him to think he's just another boy to me, he's very special. and I also don't want to ruin his first kiss, mine wasn't special, his should be! thanks

Tue, 15 May 2012 16:13:09 -0400

You’ll know when you want to kiss him. Like in the movies, when you’re leaving the date, and you guys just talk and stare at eachother, slowl lean in for a kiss, and see if he goes along. if he does, then he wants to kiss. & If he wanted to kiss you, you wouldn’t be ruining his first kiss. -Ashton

what do i do when i know i can never be with the one i love

Tue, 15 May 2012 16:10:49 -0400

Tell them if they don’t already know, and if they do & they don’t care, let go and move on. it may seem impossible , but you were fine before you met them. You will be okay now. -Ashton

So there's this guy I really like. We flirt over facebook a lot and I've met up with him once, but we were both too shy to make a move. I'm seeing him again this saturday. He calls me beautiful and stuff, but I'm not sure if he actually likes me? I really like him, but how do I know if he feels the same way about me?

Sun, 13 May 2012 19:12:19 -0400

ask him. if he wasn’t interested, why would he want to hangout, and why would he flirt and call you beautiful? i know guys can give be weird, and also give mixed signals. but to me it sounds like he likes you. and you should just let him know that you like him. -Adreanna

There's this guy I like and I'm not too sure if he knows that I do or not. School ends in about two weeks and I kind of want to tell him how I feel, but I'm not too sure how to do it? How can I tell him without scaring him off/making it awkward? We're fairly good friends in my opinion and he's a pretty chill guy.

Sun, 13 May 2012 19:08:43 -0400

just tell him. or have a friend tell him. lol. school is almost over, and you might never get the chance until next year. there could be a really good chance that he likes you too but you will never know if you don’t tell him. -Adreanna

I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend, even though I am in another relationship currently. He told me he wanted to be with me until the end of time until one day he left me out of nowhere. I was miserable for months and I'm still not completely over him. I have met a new guy, I've known him for a while now and I really like him. But then of course a few nights ago my ex had to go and text me asking to drink with him. I didn't go even though I wanted to but I am staying committed to my new guy.

Sat, 12 May 2012 20:32:03 -0400

if you aren’t over your ex, it’s really not fair to the new guy, because you’re not able to give him 100%. If you really do care a lot about this new guy, i would be honest with him. Tell him you care about him but you’re conflicted because you still really love your ex. If the new guy knows you’re struggling, it is better off for both of you, that way you’re not leading him on and he knows what he’s dealing with. if you would ever want to be with your ex again, you should probably talk to him, too. see if maybe he wants to be with you. and from there just follow your heart.-Adreanna

my boy said i was fat, and ever since than ive ben real insecure. should i go on a diet or just ignore him. idk if he was kidding or being serious

Sat, 12 May 2012 20:13:48 -0400

he really shouldn’t have said that, whether he was kidding or not. i think you should only diet if you want to do it for yourself, but not if it’s just to please him. -Adreanna

theres this guy im very confused with right now. I like him and I used to think he liked me. He sits with me on the bus everyday, we text from time to time, i catch him looking at me somtimes, but now it just doesnt seem that hes that into me anymore. he still sits with me everyday on the bus, but he doesn't always talk to me, he never texts me first, but i still catch him looking at me a lot, when i text him we usually have good convo, but I feel like I'm losing him and I'm not ready to give up

Thu, 10 May 2012 18:31:30 -0400

he’s kind of giving you mixed signals. just ask him if he likes you, just come out & say it. it’s better to know then to keep worrying & wondering about it. ya know? -Ashton

He is involved in everything I do. but I can try. it'll be better when he leaves this town

Thu, 10 May 2012 18:30:15 -0400

Good luck darling. I know you can do it <3 -Ashton

How do I get over this guy? I have tried before but I just keep falling for him

Thu, 10 May 2012 18:25:14 -0400

Be busy all the time, like make sure your constantly doing something, so you won’t give yourself time to think about him. Meet new people, and make them replace him. Don’t listen to depressing music, or watch sad movies, just don’t do anything that would make you think of him. You will be able to move on, i promise . -Ashton

my friend claaims shes soooooooooo inlove with her bf n she always ignores me friends arent suppoed to ignore other friends for their boyfriends

Thu, 10 May 2012 18:18:01 -0400

She might really be in love with him. But she’s not a real friend if she ignores you. -Ashton

send us stuff! everyone is answered.

Thu, 10 May 2012 18:15:38 -0400

send us stuff! everyone is answered.

my bestfriend is dating the kid i'm in love with. my ex boyfriend. shes my bestfriend and i'm in love with him, so i just want both of them to be happy. i try to find someone who could replace him but i have no luck. i don't know what to do.

Wed, 09 May 2012 18:57:15 -0400

Does your bestfriend know you’re in love with him? if she doesn’t, you need to let her know. I know you want them to be happy, but you need to be happy, too. So before they get too serious, you need to tell her how you feel. She is your bestfriend, right? she should understand. just spill your heart out to her, and tell her EXACTLY how you feel. Ask her how she feels about this kid, and if she truly does like/love him. If she does, maybe try focusing on something else, like school, or sports. Maybe meet new people and start hanging out with them to get your mind off of things. If your friend and this kid are meant to be, it will be. there’s nothing you can do. -Adreanna

i think im giong in to depression but my mom doesnt even care

Tue, 08 May 2012 21:55:38 -0400

Tell a counselor or teacher at school. Maybe they can have your mom get you help. -Ashton