Anonymous asked: i'm gonna die alone

You’re not gonna die alone. Just because you currently don’t have a partner, does not mean youre gonna die alone. just live life, and have fun! dont look for a relationship, because eventually it will come too you. :) -Ashton

Anonymous asked: There is this guy I've liked since literally the 7th grade, now I'm a junior in highschool and we'll be seniors next year and I really want to try things out with him, but I''ve never gone out with anyone so I really don't know how to go about it. :/ I have a class with him now and I'm friends with one of his good friends maybe that can help for support, but now that we have a class together I have a reason to talk to him I just don't know how... please help

sorry i havent gotten to your question sooner! 

but just tell this boy how you feel. like you said, you’ll be seniors next year, you’ll both be going separate ways in a year. so what if you never tell him, and you would never know if you guys couldve been together.

Maybe at first, just ask him if he’d like to hangout with you and his/your friend. and from there it should be easier talking to him.

hope i helped!

-Adreanna

Anonymous asked: No, it wasn't a good reason. She had no right to make me break up with him. He made mistakes and he hit me, but it's not her relationship. I'm trying to see him without her knowing, but it's hard.

I think your mom’s just scared he’ll hurt you again. I know people make mistakes, but has this boy really changed? If he has, you need to convince your mom, hiding your relationship from her won’t make things better, let your mom know that you’re going to see him no matter what she says. And promise me, if he ever hits you again, please leave him. No one deserves that. Because if it happens again, it could just keep happening, and someone could get seriously hurt. and he won’t change. -Adreanna

Anonymous asked: Hi there :) is it possible to be in love with or strongly like someone you know well, but havent hung out with personally? Say, a band member, and you know their personality so well, it's been a year and a half, you've met them a few times, the band member's been flirty with you in a friendly flirty way, you know what kind of person they are, but you havent actually hung out with for a length of time. This happened to me. I think I actually like this person. Is that weird and abnormal? :/

personally, i dont think you could be in love with someone you’ve never really hung out with before. I think maybe you could be strongly attracted to or infatuated with. i guess it couldn’t be completely impossible, but most of the time it’s just in the person’s head. It’s not weird to think you’re in love, or really really like someone. but try hanging out with them, see what they’re like around you, then decide if you are or are not in love with them. -Adreanna

Anonymous asked: My mom made me break up with my bf.

She really shouldn’t have made you, it’s your choice who you want to be with. was it for a good reason? -Adreanna

Anonymous asked: what type of advise do you give.?

We answer everything. No matter what.  -Ashton 

Anonymous asked: So my best guy friend confessed he liked me on easter I didn't exactly feel the same but he kept asking me to give him a chance so i went for it and then i really started to fall for him & now, i dont even know how to explain what i feel. I constantly think about him and his emotions are so bi polar. first he wants to talk to me, then he doesn't. And he says i hurt his feelings because after i said i'd give him a chance, i pushed him away & now i'm trying to fix things, is it too late to fix it?

It’s never to late to fix things. But he’s giving you mixed signals. Tell him to stop, and if he doesn’t , then i guess you guys just weren’t meant to be. -Ashton

my0wnriptide asked: hi, I've got a date tomorrow with this guy I really like ( I'm pretty sure he like me too). He's 17 and has never been kissed I'm 15 and I've got quite a lot experience. I want to kiss him but I don't know if I should (he's probably not going to kiss me, he's scared of being rejected). kissing on the first date might be too soon and I don't want him to think he's just another boy to me, he's very special. and I also don't want to ruin his first kiss, mine wasn't special, his should be! thanks

You’ll know when you want to kiss him. Like in the movies, when you’re leaving the date, and you guys just talk and stare at eachother, slowl lean in for a kiss, and see if he goes along. if he does, then he wants to kiss. & If he wanted to kiss you, you wouldn’t be ruining his first kiss. -Ashton 

Anonymous asked: what do i do when i know i can never be with the one i love

Tell them if they don’t already know, and if they do & they don’t care, let go and move on. it may seem impossible , but you were fine before you met them. You will be okay now. -Ashton 

0nly--baby-scars asked: So there's this guy I really like. We flirt over facebook a lot and I've met up with him once, but we were both too shy to make a move. I'm seeing him again this saturday. He calls me beautiful and stuff, but I'm not sure if he actually likes me? I really like him, but how do I know if he feels the same way about me?

ask him. if he wasn’t interested, why would he want to hangout, and why would he flirt and call you beautiful? i know guys can give be weird, and also give mixed signals. but to me it sounds like he likes you. and you should just let him know that you like him. -Adreanna